Wednesday, June 05, 2013

First World Problems


I went down to lour local Apple shop last Friday evening to get a spare cable to pack for our trip. I had my earphones in listening to music on my mp3 player as I walked up to the blue shirted smiling young woman who stepped up to assist me.
As she came up I paused the music and took the earphones off.
“Oh,” she said looking at the brand, “they are awesome earphones, they are just the best!”
“I had a set just like that, wore them, like, all the time, they were so good.”
Then her face fell. “I don’t have them anymore they got totally crushed by a car. Worst day of my life, losing those earphones! They were just, like, in smithereens! I was totally devastated!”
“How did that happen?” I asked, “were they on the driveway or something?”
“Oh no, they were in my back pocket,” She said, slapping the back of her jeans.
“I got hit by a car from behind while I was crossing a road. Sent me flying and gave me a massive bruise. Ended up in hospital, couldn’t walk for a week.”
“That’s simply terrible!” I gasped, “How are you doing?”
“Oh, not so good,” she said with a sigh. “I really, really miss those headphones but I can’t afford to replace them. It was so bad, getting them broken like that.”
I just stared at her in disbelieve. “But you could have got killed. That car must have hit you really hard.  You’re very lucky that you are OK.”
“Yeah, it was full-on, but [sigh], looking at those headphones – Gee, you’re lucky you’ve still got your set.”
I walked out with the cable I needed thinking about the value we put on things and the essentials we take for granted: quality of music versus quality of life?  Yet here I was with the same headphones and gadgets and ‘stuff’ I would find hard to give up.
I wonder where is the fine line between enjoying and celebrating creation and invention and becoming addicted to it and dependent on it?
Bertrand Russell once said: “It is the preoccupation with possessions, more than anything else that prevents us from living freely and nobly.”