Wednesday, April 17, 2024

STILLNESS

Early this year, 
on a cool summer's day, I found myself down on the beach, a few kilometres past Lorne. I was all alone with the wind and waves, reflecting on the year that was passing and on the New Year about to dawn. I was thinking about the never-ending and overwhelming changes washing like waves around us: 

Flooding up in north eastern Australia; the seemingly insoluble Gaza crisis, the brutal war in the Ukraine, the post-covid economic challenges, high mortgage rates, global warming, the Myanmar civil war, cost-of-living pressures, the newly emerging risks of inadequately controlled generative artificial intelligence, instability in U.S. politics and on and on!

I was also reading the following: “Come and see what the LORD has done, the desolations he has brought on the earth. 
9 He makes wars cease 
to the ends of the earth. 
He breaks the bow and shatters the spear; 
he burns the shields with fire. 
10 He says, “Be still, and know that I am God; 
I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.” (Psalm 46: 8-10 NIV)

It is hard for us to “be still” in the modern world, and yet it is what we need to learn if we are to be effective.

There was a fascinating feature article about stillness written some time ago, that I noted and kept: “The Joy of Quiet” by Pico Iyer. What would happen if we made the practice of ‘stillness’ a priority in 2024? 

Pico writes:

‘About a year ago, I flew to Singapore to join the writer Malcolm Gladwell, the fashion designer Marc Ecko and the graphic designer Stefan Sagmeister in addressing a group of advertising people on “Marketing to the Child of Tomorrow.” Soon after I arrived, the chief executive of the agency that had invited us took me aside. What he was most interested in, he began — I braced myself for mention of some next-generation stealth campaign — was stillness...” .... 

Intel (of all companies) experimented with conferring four uninterrupted hours of quiet time every Tuesday morning on 300 engineers and managers. (The average office worker today, researchers have found, enjoys no more than three minutes at a time at his or her desk without interruption.) During this period the workers were not allowed to use the phone or send e-mail, but simply had the chance to clear their heads and to hear themselves think. A majority of Intel’s trial group recommended that the policy be extended to others.

The average American spends at least eight and a half hours a day in front of a screen, Nicholas Carr notes in his eye-opening book “The Shallows,” in part because the number of hours American adults spent online doubled between 2005 and 2009 (and the number of hours spent in front of a TV screen, often simultaneously, is also steadily increasing). ....

The urgency of slowing down — to find the time and space to think — is nothing new, of course, and wiser souls have always reminded us that the more attention we pay to the moment, the less time and energy we have to place it in some larger context. 

“Distraction is the only thing that consoles us for our miseries,” the French philosopher Blaise Pascal wrote in the 17th century, “and yet it is itself the greatest of our miseries.” He also famously remarked that all of man’s [sic] problems come from his inability to sit quietly in a room alone. 

... Henry David Thoreau reminded us that “the man [sic] whose horse trots a mile in a minute does not carry the most important messages.” Even half a century ago, Marshall McLuhan, who came closer than most to seeing what was coming, warned, “When things come at you very fast, naturally you lose touch with yourself.” Thomas Merton struck a chord with millions, by not just noting that “Man [sic] was made for the highest activity, which is, in fact, his rest,” but by also acting on it, and stepping out of the rat race and into a Cistercian cloister. ....

So what to do? The central paradox of the machines that have made our lives so much brighter, quicker, longer and healthier is that they cannot teach us how to make the best use of them; the information revolution came without an instruction manual. All the data in the world cannot teach us how to sift through data; images don’t show us how to process images. The only way to do justice to our onscreen lives is by summoning exactly the emotional and moral clarity that can’t be found on any screen.

Maybe that’s why more and more people I know, even if they have no religious commitment, seem to be turning to yoga or meditation, or tai chi; these aren’t New Age fads so much as ways to connect with what could be called the wisdom of old age. Two journalist friends of mine observe an “Internet sabbath” every week, turning off their online connections from Friday night to Monday morning, so as to try to revive those ancient customs known as family meals and conversation. ....

It’s vital, of course, to stay in touch with the world, and to know what’s going on; I took pains this past year to make separate trips to Jerusalem and Hyderabad and Oman and St. Petersburg, to rural Arkansas and Thailand and the stricken nuclear plant in Fukushima and Dubai. But it’s only by having some distance from the world that you can see it whole, and understand what you should be doing with it. 

For more than 20 years, therefore, I’ve been going several times
a year — often for no longer than three days — to a Benedictine hermitage, 40 minutes down the road, as it happens, from the Post Ranch Inn. I don’t attend services when I’m there, and I’ve never meditated, there or anywhere; I just take walks and read and lose myself in the stillness, recalling that it’s only by stepping briefly away from my wife and bosses and friends that I’ll have anything useful to bring to them.”


Pico Iyer is the author of “The Man Within My Head.”